Pre Cana

Going into last weekend I was a bit nervous about Pre Cana classes.  While reading several mixed reviews across the board everyone that I knew that did it said it whould bring out doubts or make me queasy.  I went into this day expecting facing hard questions.  How wrong I was.

No some would say I was just spinning things and not taking serious the topics that were being brought up but I say your people don't know me. I took everything they said serious (except maybe the parenting part).  Not once did I deny anything said and proclaim "that couldn't happen to us" What I did do is take everything to heart.  I answered every question truthfully.  What came out of it was what I have figured out a while back.

Me and My Fiancee are on the same page.  Being mature adults with developed pesonalities and traits we know what we want and what we can do.  We both state our minds and talk about everything.  I am not saying we don't have fears.  The fear she has given me is that she is afraid I will lose interest and someone else will steal me away from her.  I fear I will not be able to satisfy her and she will get bored with me. Both fears are legit but I think knowing them will help us dispell them.  I don't think I could ever do enough to squash her fear so I just have to stay vigilant and make sure she know she is my one and only.  With my fear i just need to keep at it.  Don't take things for granted and make sure her needs and desires are met.  easy peasy >_<

Over all it was a nice weekend.  I spent the whole day with her and we got to solidify our love with each other.  We had a nice lunch and a well intentioned meal (dang those green beans were good).  All for 50 buck.  Money well worth spent.  That is what the sushi meal cost the night before... I would take Pre Cana over that any day ^_^

Next up, assessment review with the Deacon.  Bring it on!! We are ready!

Team PDA FTW!