Tuesday, March 26, 2013

the rough draft of our story




Once upon a time, there was a beautiful princess who left her castle to get away from an evil wizard. Our princess decided she needed to move to a faraway land to escape the clutches of the evil wizard and made plans to do so.  While waiting for her plans to be finalized, she met with other so called princes hoping to find her prince charming. These other men were not princes, they were fowl creatures who wasted the princess's time. 
On the day she found out she was heading to the land far away she met the town fool.  He seemed nice and funny.  Our princess told the fool of her plans on moving and he accepted this fate and wanted to make her last few days in the land merry.
So our princess and her fool enjoyed their time together. They laughed and dined and maid their days merry.  Little did they know, they were falling in love.  The more time they spent together, the sadder they got because the princess had to go far away. 
On the day she left, both had shed tears, but the fool was not an ordinary fool.  He got on his steed and followed the princess to the far away land.  Here, he proposed to the princess and right before her eyes transformed into her prince charming. She agreed to marry him.
This is the start of their happily ever after. This will be their wedding.    Please, come and join the festivities.

this could probably be fleshed out if I thought short and sweet would be good.  Let me know what you think and any errors that need to be corrected.

Love ya

Monday, March 4, 2013

Pre Cana



Going into last weekend I was a bit nervous about Pre Cana classes.  While reading several mixed reviews across the board everyone that I knew that did it said it whould bring out doubts or make me queasy.  I went into this day expecting facing hard questions.  How wrong I was.

No some would say I was just spinning things and not taking serious the topics that were being brought up but I say your people don't know me. I took everything they said serious (except maybe the parenting part).  Not once did I deny anything said and proclaim "that couldn't happen to us" What I did do is take everything to heart.  I answered every question truthfully.  What came out of it was what I have figured out a while back.

Me and My Fiancee are on the same page.  Being mature adults with developed pesonalities and traits we know what we want and what we can do.  We both state our minds and talk about everything.  I am not saying we don't have fears.  The fear she has given me is that she is afraid I will lose interest and someone else will steal me away from her.  I fear I will not be able to satisfy her and she will get bored with me. Both fears are legit but I think knowing them will help us dispell them.  I don't think I could ever do enough to squash her fear so I just have to stay vigilant and make sure she know she is my one and only.  With my fear i just need to keep at it.  Don't take things for granted and make sure her needs and desires are met.  easy peasy >_<

Over all it was a nice weekend.  I spent the whole day with her and we got to solidify our love with each other.  We had a nice lunch and a well intentioned meal (dang those green beans were good).  All for 50 buck.  Money well worth spent.  That is what the sushi meal cost the night before... I would take Pre Cana over that any day ^_^

Next up, assessment review with the Deacon.  Bring it on!! We are ready!

Team PDA FTW!