My list to start things out

I guess the first thing I should do is start making out a checklist of the things that need to be done. Of course this list is just from my perspective and probably missing a ton of details but it is a starting point.  Lets start from the beginning.

Pre-engagementMeet a girl - Check
fall in love - Check
whew the hard steps are done. I have been working on those for almost 4 decades.
Decide to ask her to marry me     check
get a ring       check
propose (informally - check, formally not so much doh)
girl accepts       see above
Post engagementset a date       check (if ok with church)
pick best man     check
pick maid/matron of honor   check
tell family
tell world
Church Stuff contact church      check
sign up for pre-cana     check
go to pre-cana
Meet with deacon      check
Do assessments     check
go over assessments with deacon   Check
Meet with Church's wedding planner
Meet with priest
pick out reading/prayers   check
pick out music
select musician
select readers
servers
ClothesBride Dress
Matron of honor dress    check (I think)
Groom suit     check
best man suit     check
make sure suit/shirt/tie match  
reception wear     check

Receptiondecide where
book hall
Hors'Doeuvres

main course
cake
grooms cake
drinks
utensils
plates
table cloths
center pieces
music
toasts
seating
itinerary

extraengagement photos
wedding photos
reception photos
groom gift
bride gift
Matron of honor gift
best man Gift
shower
bachelor party
invites
guest list     check
Well that is a good start.  I know I am missing a bunch of stuff.  I signed up for a website called Weddingwire.com and they have some tools to help plan this special day. Maybe after looking around I can add some more to this list but it shows us just where we are at so far.
268 days 10 hours 30 min and counting